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Handling "No" and Asking for Feedback

Learn from every no, and ask your first customers what worked.

  • Workbook
  • 8 pages
  • About 60 minutes to fill in
  • Google Docs · Word · PDF

Making this yourself would take about 8 hours: working out the steps, writing the examples and setting it up in Google, Microsoft and PDF. It's done for you.

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The voice in this video is George's, made with AI.

What it's for

You've started offering your work to real people, and some have said no, gone quiet, or bought and moved on. Use it to learn from all of them.

What you'll need: About 60 minutes, your messages, notes or memory of recent conversations, and a pen. Nothing to buy.

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What you'll leave with

  • Every recent no written down, and sorted by what it was really about.
  • Calm replies for the worries you hear most, that answer without pushing.
  • A clear line for when to let someone go.
  • Short, easy questions to ask customers what worked and what was hard.
  • A way to tell people what you changed, ask happy customers for a few words, and a Feedback Log you keep using.

Look inside

Sample page from Handling "No" and Asking for Feedback. Page 2: Sort What Each No Is Really About.
Page 2: Sort What Each No Is Really About.
Sample page from Handling "No" and Asking for Feedback. Page 3: Respond Without Pushing.
Page 3: Respond Without Pushing.

How to use it

Work through the steps in order. Each one has a worked example and space to write your own answer.

  1. Write Down Every NoInclude the silent ones.
  2. Sort What Each No Is Really AboutTiming, money, trust, or not for them.
  3. Respond Without PushingWrite honest answers to the worries you hear most.
  4. Know When to Let GoLet final no's go kindly.
  5. Ask Your Customers What Worked and What Was HardAsk while the work is fresh.
  6. Ask People Who Said No (Just Once)One short, easy question.
  7. Record It in One PlaceSo patterns show up.
  8. Choose One Change to TryChange the thing that came up most, and only that.
  9. Close the Loop, and Ask for a Kind WordTell people what you changed, and ask happy customers if you may share what they said.
  10. Tools That Help HereSee the free tools that help.
  11. Do It With AIUse the prompts to spot patterns without inventing any.
  12. My Feedback LogCopy this page and add a line after every no and every customer conversation.

Tips

  • A no is about the offer, not about you.
  • Your job isn't to turn every no into a yes. It's to understand enough of them.
  • Look over the log every few weeks. Patterns take a few weeks to show.

Three formats, one purchase

  • Google DocsMake a copy in your Google Drive and type straight into it.
  • Microsoft WordDownload and fill it in on your computer.
  • PDFPrint it and fill it in with a pen.

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